失戀我也經歷過﹐真是很痛很痛﹐
但時間是會令這種痛楚慢慢地消失﹐
反而我覺得這是成長的一部份﹐
令我們更了解&認識自己 & 怎樣對人相處溝通﹐
從中真是得到&學到很多﹐
我其實覺得很可惜的﹐一旦分手而沒有朋友做﹐
因為兩個人一起的時候不只是談情說愛﹐
你們會get to know each other so well﹐
他會變成你的好朋友﹐someone who understands you & cares for you & your family,
那當然depends on the nature of the break up 亦要時間比雙方回復心情才可﹐
我是很感動that 當你分手後﹐雙方一樣那麼關心對方﹐不會話分手後就當唔識你﹐
可能有時做朋友更加適合﹐那我更加respect 他﹐and it shows me what he is really like as a person and you still care so much for one another!!
and of course there are times when you cannot possibly be friends and it can clearly reveal what he is really like, and you learn from that...
希望你的朋友慢慢pick herself back up...
and 希望我們每個會遇到適合自己的伴侶 and live happily ever after...yes i still have & believe this fairy tale hope in mind
xx